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Apr 19, 2023Liked by Emily Nagoski

And after this latest episode... I am convinced the powerful friendships between them, as well Beard & Ted, Roy & Jamie, Higgins & Rebecca, might be even more clearly seen in some of those ever-shifting triads that make healthy systems function (or put unhealthy ones in a funk).

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Apr 18, 2023Liked by Emily Nagoski

So true! Love this.

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Apr 17, 2023Liked by Emily Nagoski

Perfect post - absolutely perfect! Thank you @Emily!

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Can I ask the Sassy question??? I am trying to find someone talking about the fact that what Sassy did to Ted in the Season 1 Ted Lasso episode "Make Rebecca Great Again" was predatory! If a man had objectified a woman the way Sassy did Ted earlier in the episode, and then "led" her into her hotel room when she'd just had a panic attack and was in an extremely vulnerable place, expecting to have sex with her, we would be talking about it. But nowhere did I see any indication this was not an okay thing for the Sassy character to do. I'm not saying it shouldn't have happened in the show; I'm saying the way it was written none of the characters seemed to think this behavior was problematic, and apparently nobody watching it but me thinks so either because I never saw anyone talking about it. Is it just okay for a woman to act this way towards a man because "everyone knows a man will always want sex"??? This feels sexist, outdated, and immature.

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I 100% agree and now that you mention it, that entire story line was a “hanging chad” for me.

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Agree! Now that the season is over it's like *where were you planning on going with this?*

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