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Steve Kaiser's avatar

I think a little more discussion on what sexual incompatibility is as it can take many forms. For me it was a problem as I rarely orgasm to ejaculation. I get and stay hard but I just don’t ejaculate. This has caused all kind of issues as my partners think they can’t please me. Even after asserting that I completely enjoy every minute they don’t believe me and it’s caused a huge problem. My current partner gets it and we are so happy even after 3 years. She’s highly orgasmic and completely enjoys all the extras. And I get how it has been a problem for some

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Desiree McCullough's avatar

This is very much me and my partner. Thank you so much for sharing. It really helps.

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James Jordan's avatar

Sometimes a strawberry is just a strawberry.

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Magdalena's avatar

Saved but scared to read 🥹

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Rita Novello's avatar

The floor plan? Just don’t see anyone seriously doing that. I felt the article didnt address any real issues till the last paragraph which had some common sense seminal information. Since we are talking long term, I noticed no issues specifically on aging and the difficulties of deep change that go hand in hand with life changing us in uncontrollable ways which seems prevalent in the long term partnered people I am close to.

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James Jordan's avatar

Oh my!

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Sajel Bellon Ed.D, RP.'s avatar

Great topic! I encounter this all the time with my clients!!

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Blair Frodelius's avatar

I like this. A lot.

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