This is a possible boring explanation for the gap from a boring guy, but I wonder how much could be do to most men sexually shutting down after any orgasm. A woman who’s gotten off can go on to get off her partner while still having fun, but the reverse is much less true
As a fan of the writer Emily Nagoski ;), I wonder if you reframed this as The "Pleasure Gap" does it change any feelings or any ideas around it? If we measured the "gap" by how often the woman's pleasure is centered and felt vs. centering orgasm/pleasure from a penis?
This is a possible boring explanation for the gap from a boring guy, but I wonder how much could be do to most men sexually shutting down after any orgasm. A woman who’s gotten off can go on to get off her partner while still having fun, but the reverse is much less true
Hi,
As a fan of the writer Emily Nagoski ;), I wonder if you reframed this as The "Pleasure Gap" does it change any feelings or any ideas around it? If we measured the "gap" by how often the woman's pleasure is centered and felt vs. centering orgasm/pleasure from a penis?