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Great interview! My two takeaways are:

What is it that you want, when you want sex with your partner? (Hint: It’s not orgasm. You can probably do that on your own, and if you can’t there are whole books to help you with that.)

And what is it that you don’t want, when you don’t want sex?

These questions replace, “Why won’t you have sex with me?” or “Why did we lose the spark?”

IT IS NORMAL NOT TO WANT SEX YOU DO NOT LIKE.

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One thing I most appreciate about Emily’s work is how validated I feel by it. I’m not the weirdo I thought I was. I’m normal.

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