Just a comment from the other side. As I’ve gotten older I’ve rarely been able to orgasm thru intercourse alone. It could be age or a spinal surgery I’ve had but it just doesn’t happen. And it doesn’t always happen with manual stimulation. I’ve explained it to past partners and many have had issues with it as their insecurities have popped up. My current partner is so wonderful and it doesn’t matter to her. She’s enjoying the ride so to speak. But yeah it can be frustrating. But acceptance is the key. And yes I’ve talked to doctors and I’ve recieved nothing but it is what it is.
Just a comment from the other side. As I’ve gotten older I’ve rarely been able to orgasm thru intercourse alone. It could be age or a spinal surgery I’ve had but it just doesn’t happen. And it doesn’t always happen with manual stimulation. I’ve explained it to past partners and many have had issues with it as their insecurities have popped up. My current partner is so wonderful and it doesn’t matter to her. She’s enjoying the ride so to speak. But yeah it can be frustrating. But acceptance is the key. And yes I’ve talked to doctors and I’ve recieved nothing but it is what it is.
I would just add that it can and does change for the same person at different times.
What was perfect last night might not be right at all today. Trust and communication (and men being better listeners/sensers) are crucial.