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Steve Kaiser's avatar

Just a comment from the other side. As I’ve gotten older I’ve rarely been able to orgasm thru intercourse alone. It could be age or a spinal surgery I’ve had but it just doesn’t happen. And it doesn’t always happen with manual stimulation. I’ve explained it to past partners and many have had issues with it as their insecurities have popped up. My current partner is so wonderful and it doesn’t matter to her. She’s enjoying the ride so to speak. But yeah it can be frustrating. But acceptance is the key. And yes I’ve talked to doctors and I’ve recieved nothing but it is what it is.

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T.E. Lemaître's avatar

“He eventually helped her to climax thirty times in a row. When he asked what her limit was, she told him that once she’d given herself an hour of— smaller— orgasms. She was a goddess.

She was also superhuman in her vaginal sensitivity, statistically unusual according to science, which found that this mode only stimulated about twenty percent of women, despite the vainglorious assumptions of their male partners.” https://mindwithoutmind.substack.com/p/mind-without-mind?r=59uj2p

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Maria's avatar

Penis size also matters. Woman's clitoris can be stimulated inside vagina when penis is right size. I as a woman want to come during intercourse because orgasm is very strong when something is inside vagina.

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